Crosstown Classic {by Matt}

As many of you know, Jackie and I have been going to New Life Community Church in Little Village, a neighborhood bordering Cicero. Our church runs a summer softball league similar to the one we run in Cicero. Today, was their league tournament. Matt, one of the pastors explains it here:

“This Saturday we will have our second annual Crosstown Classic where we take the top 3 teams from our Farragut softball league and play them against the top 3 teams from our Piotrowski softball league.
The reason this is such a big deal is because we are bringing two sides of the neighborhood together…two sides that spend most of their time seeking to kill and destroy each other through rival gangs, now coming together in peace to have fun, laugh, and play ball.
Please keep this event in serious prayer. Pray for peace, no incidents, and that alot of fun would be had by all. It is events like this that by faith can open the eyes of the youth to see that there is more to life than just the streets and the gang lifestyle.”

I’m glad to be part of a church that believes in reaching those who are often overlooked. I stopped by the field during the first game today and it was awesome seeing youth and adults having fun and competing hard. The park was filled with grace and peace.

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Update {By Joel}

Update:

Hey Everyone,

I just wanted to give you a quick update.

1. Joel’s School – As most of you hopefully know by now, I’m currently pursuing my Masters in Non-Profit Management at DePaul University. By the end of Nov. I’ll be one year into the program. I’ve genuinely been enjoying my classes but as expected, it’s been pretty time consuming. Please continue to pray for me as I try manage my time well.

2. The Baby – Baby Wallen is now 15 weeks in the making. We’re through the first trimester! Crazzzzyyy! Jackie’s doing better but she’s still occasionally nauseous and still needing lots of sleep. Please keep her and the baby in prayer. In a few more weeks, we’ll find out if we’re having a boy of girl. We’ll definitely let you all know.

3. Joel’s work – Things have been extremely busy but good. Over the past six weeks, I’ve hired two part-time employees, started up our 4-day a week after school program again (with an average of 60 kids attending a day), started a new cycle of for our leadership program (with 23 new youth interns), started overseeing 5 college interns, and took 56 youth on a field trip. Actually, that’s just part of it. Needless to say, I’ve been busy . . . but it’s soooo much fun.

4. Jackie’s work – Things have also been crazy for Jackie. Since school has started up again, she’s been extremely busy with being on crisis call (Jackie responds to crisis situations at police stations involving youth who are run-aways or who’s parents kick them out of their house). She’s been receiving a high number of calls (including 3 in a 24-hour period) and they’re all stressful situations. On top of this, she’s started conducting assessments for new clients for her counseling position at the Freshmen Center. She’s really enjoying work but please pray for her regarding stress management and time management.

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Gang Houses & Christian Houses {By Joel}

So as many of you know, we moved into our new house about 10 months ago. We only moved about a block and a half from where our apartment was but living in the middle of a block has made me see the neighborhood from a new perspective. As the weather got warmer, one thing specifically stood out to me. On almost every block, there’s one gang house. I’ve made it my goal to get to know the guys in these houses and make my presence known to them.

It got me thinking though, here are these houses where guys congregate. Sometimes they just hang out as comrades. But other times, they get high, graffiti the neighborhood, and place fear into others. They make their presence known and if there’s someone they don’t recognize, they have no problem “introducing” themselves.

What if as Christians we took on a similar approach? What if in our neighborhood, each block had a “Christian” house. At these houses, people would congregate and everyone would know which house on the block is the “Christian” house. Similar to gang houses, Christians living in these houses would have no problem introducing themselves to others.

Differently though, these houses would be filled with love. Others would know that this house is a place to go for comfort, food, a good conversation, prayer, and laughter.

I hope our house can become this.

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On Community {by Jack Legg}

A good friend on mine lives in an intentional community in Springfield, Ohio. He occasionally blogs and I thought I’d share his most recent post with you all.

The 12 marks of New Monasticism are simply 12 principles that have resurfaced in Christian communities throughout church history.

In the coming weeks, I plan to highlight each of these 12 marks, briefly explain them, and explore their significance in relation to the Mulberry House.

1) Relocation to the abandoned places of the Empire.

(I am indebted to Sister Margaret McKenna, who wrote a thought-provoking essay about the first mark in the book edited by Rutba House. Be sure to read her work for more on this topic.)

John Perkins, prolific leader and urban minister developed a model that became the foundation of the Christian Community Development Association (CCDA). He suggested that our urban centers are in need of three R’s: Reconciliation (both between God and man and between man and man), Redistribution of resources, and Relocation to disenfranchised communities.

Throughout church history, relocation to deserted places has been a key component of the narrative. Moses, Elijah, Jesus, John the Baptist, Anthony, Syncletica, Pachomius, Barsanuph, Isaac the Syrian, Benedict and Basil, and many other saints and sinners… all of these people retreated to deserted places at some point during their walk (I had to look up some of those unfamiliar names myself!).

A desert is characterized as being an empty, barren, and abandoned place. In many ways, the community surrounding Mulberry House is a desert. As Sister McKenna wrote, “An abandoned place is one that has no attraction for the ‘world of what’s happening now,’ and therefore is left alone by the political, economic, and social powers that be. Deserts and wastelands are abandoned places. So are inner cities, some of the loneliest places on earth.”

Sometimes we have visitors here at the house. Sometimes those visitors ask us about our neighborhood. The term “ghost town” often comes to mind when I discuss the economic climate of our community. Springfield was once a thriving giant of industry, with various automobile factories, publishing companies, and manufacturers of farm equipment. Now, we only see the skeletal remains, fossils and empty shells of the industries that once were.

The same can be said about the church community. Make no mistake, we have many healthy, active, and missional churches in our neighborhood. I am consistently surprised and humbled by great men and women of faith who continue to maintain outposts of God’s Kingdom here in the thick of things. But for every active church in our neighborhood, there are several empty ones. Like exhibits in the local historical society, abandoned church buildings dot the landscape, reminding us of congregations that came to the city to serve only to retreat in later years. Likewise, many of our neighbors, natives of Springfield born and raised, bear scars and mournful memories of ministers who used to serve here, but left.

What is so alluring about abandoned and deserted places? In our quest to follow King Jesus, what draws us to the outskirts of civilization?

Well, a few things really…

a) There is a sense in which relocation to the deserts eliminates a lot of the interference that hinders our relationship with God. We do not withdraw from the world in an ascetic sense, as if we are pulling away from objects or people to attain righteousness and keep from being unclean. No, it is nothing like that. But we do seek to strip away the unnecessary frills of our lives, pull off the bells and whistles and revel in glorious simplicity.

Someone has said, “You never know God is all you need until God is all you have.” I think there is some truth to that. Relocating to the abandoned places of society often opens our eyes to the presence of God in our lives amidst the desolation. “To be mindful of God is to be mindful of self,” St. Augustine once remarked.

b) Relocating to the abandoned places is an exercise of saying both no and yes. Our choice of lifestyle says no to the majority culture. There is a degree of decadence and wastefulness in our society. Their is an overwhelming compulsion to consume and consume and consume. This relocation helps us in our quest to subvert these tendencies. We actively reject the notion of “upward mobility,” and have come to this neighborhood by our own choosing, not because we are stuck here until something better comes along.

Relocation also says yes to an alternative lifestyle. In our quest to follow Jesus, we find that intentionally seeking places that are weak or ignored or forgotten manifests our commitment and our personal desire for tangible expression of our faith.

c) Also, broken places are full of broken people, so we believe Jesus would go there. If the rest of the world has abandoned these places, we want to fill the gaps. God’s Kingdom will sprout up anywhere and everywhere. And let’s not forget that God has a knack for launching amazing things out of unlikely places. God can never be forced into the margins, but He does often choose to work from there.

Relocation to our neighborhood is not our own personal rescue mission in which we go to “that poor, poor neighborhood” with the intention of bringing hope and salvation through our presence.

It is not an adventure, or stunt, as missionaries to “boldly go where no man has gone before.” It is not about convicting “lazy” churches or impressing well-to-do suburbanites with our bravery and stamina.

It is not about gathering exciting stories about drugs and sex and guns and gangs, so we may tell them to people who shake their heads and say, “Oh, I could never do that!”

Relocation to our neighborhood is, however, purposeful. We are mindful of the brokenness and emptiness and forgottenness of this place… but we are also mindful of God’s presence here, and His plans for goodness and prosperity in this barren place.

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Softball {By Kiev}

Kiev has been living with us for the past six months. This summer, he helped out with our softball league and we asked him to share his experience with you all.

Hi my name is Kiev Garcia I am 23 years old and I am from Guadalajara Mexico. I moved to Chicago early this year and I have been living with the Joel and Jaclyn since March. What do I know about softball? NOTHING!

This summer, they allowed me to be part of this softball league but as a Mexican guy I just know how to play soccer :) Along with that I have done gymnastics since I was 5. I’ve also played few games of basketball but I haven’t seen even a single inning of baseball game on TV. So I honestly didn’t know that that game of softball even existed.

This Sunday was my first experience helping with softball and when I arrived at the fields for my first time I felt that God was preparing something amazing for me. It wasn’t just seeing softballs for the first time in my life, or the cool feeling of power grabbing a baseball bat it was more than that.

What God was preparing for me, was to be around 60 kids between 14 and 19 years old warming up at a 9am in the morning. I could feel the enthusiasm, energy, talent and without them noticing Gods love upon them.

At first I was worried about my lack of extensive knowledge of softball. I really didn’t want to be embarrassed because I didn’t know the rules or how to even hit a ball, but after the first 10 minutes of playing I forgot what I was afraid of.

Watching all those kids running, hitting the ball so far, and sliding into base made me realize that I was in the right place. My intentions were to learn to enjoy a Sunday morning, but when I got there the kids showed me more that I was expecting. They seemed to be so happy, so exited, they showed me encouragement, teamwork developing new skills and but the most, the love of God.

I know that all that I experienced this morning was simply God working in those kids. Maybe some of them don’t know it or they hadn’t had the chance to think about it, maybe no one has come to them and tell them that because of God they can have fun, laugh, and enjoy this game.

I did learned something today, hey I had the chance to hit the ball with a bat, but I learned more than that. I learn about how good God is!

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I’m Pregnant {By Jackie}

I am pregnant! Joel and I couldn’t be more excited about Baby Wallen (or “B-dub” as Joel has recently been calling he/she). Friday we had a 12 week ultrasound. For the first time we could actually see the arms and legs moving about as our active little one showed off for the ultrasound. Seeing it move around in there was indescribable. As tears streamed down my face I couldn’t help but think about those verses where the Psalmist talks about “being knit in my mother’s womb” (Psalm 139). The responsibility and privilege of parenthood is humbling and scary, but promises to be quite an adventure.

Being pregnant has given me a whole new perspective on my life. Each decision I make I have to take into consideration the effect that it will have on the little munchkin growing inside of me. Should I eat that Frosty or an apple, should I exercise, should I force myself to stay awake or give in to that incredible urge to go to sleep before 9pm. What if I lived my life with this much consideration for those around me? Would I go out of my way to cross paths with the man who is wanting to clean my windows at the corner, or would I pick the longest line with the slowest, crankiest cashier just so I could offer words of encouragement?

I think that God gives us so many opportunities throughout our lives to grow and become more Christ-like. My prayer is that for Joel and I, and those that live in community with us, that this time of baby growing and preparation will be a time in which we can focus in on what is truly important in our lives, that we would live our lives to be spiritually, physically, and emotionally healthy. Our lives are about to be turned upside down by this little one, but I believe that God has great things in store for 23rd St. Community with the addition of Baby Wallen.

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August Newsletter

The past few weeks have been busy. Last weekend, we wrapped up the softball league in an all-day, double-elimination tournament. I was really impressed with the sportsmanship that the players had towards one another. Many of the players have been in the league for a couple of years and have done a great job recruiting their friends, so this year we had a good mix of league veterans and newbies. The team “Underrated” won for the second year in a row. We posted pictures on our website so feel free to check them out if you’d like.

Last week, we got back from 4 days at camp. This year we took fourteen guys to a camp called Kings Domain right near Cincinnati. It’s really hard to sum up four days with a rowdy group of teenagers. The weekend started with a long car ride–complete with many stops at rest areas to throw a football around. Each day at camp began and ended with a devotional. The theme of the weekend was “Man Up.” We recognize that the streets have their own interpretation of what it means to be a “man.” We wanted the guys to walk away with an understanding of how God defines “manliness.” The rest of the time was spent doing activities including team building, a night hike, a twelve mile canoe trip, playing corn hole and carpet ball, swimming and, of course, softball. While the camp was physically and emotionally exhausting, it was so worth it!

With softball and camp over, we’re beginning to consider what the next steps are for the ministry. We’re continuing to have a good group of guys over to our house each Saturday night to hang out and have Bible study. This summer we have had about 7-8 new guys from the league participate in the Bible study. Besides Saturday nights, we also have guys over a few times a week to play basketball, eat, play the Wii or just hangout and talk. These are where the good conversations happen and we are able to really invest in the guys’ lives.

Now that we’re officially associated with a great non-profit organization (New Life Centers), this means that we have the potential to pursue a lot of new opportunities. Many of the guys have asked for us to run a fall/winter league, either football, basketball or dodgeball. Please pray for us as we decide what’s next. Also, please pray that God would bring other godly adults to serve as volunteers and role models.

Along with this, we felt the need to give you a financial update. First of all, we want to thank those who have so generously given to the Cicero ministry. Not only has it made this summer possible, but it has also been a great encouragement to us. However, the softball league and camp cost more then we expected this year. Additionally we had fewer donations come in this year then last and right now we’re about $1,500 short. We really feel that we need to take care of this before we begin seriously looking to the future. Please join us in prayer that God would provide the necessary funds to finish paying for the softball league and the camping trip.

If you would like to donate towards this ministry, please mail check donations to New Life Centers 4101 W 51st Ave, Chicago IL 60632. Checks can be made out to New Life Centers, but please put Cicero Softball League in the memo line. If you’d rather give via credit or debit card, please go on our website www.thewallens.com and click on “Support Us.” *All donations are tax-deductible.* (I apologize for how the website looks lately – I uploaded a newer version of the formated program and it erased some stuff on there and I cannot figure out to get it back. I am still working on trying to get it fixed.)

We wanted to save the biggest news for last, (well actually right now it’s small) ….we are having a baby!!! Baby Wallen is due around March 24, 2012. Last week we had our first ultrasound, and I must say that we have the cutest little “Jelly Bean.” I cannot even begin to say how special it was to see the little heartbeat flickering on the monitor. While parenthood seems like a daunting task, we are really excited about the new addition. Please be praying for Jackie as this first trimester has included a lot of sickness, dizziness, and exhaustion. Pray also that God would use these next 7 month to prepare us to be the best parents we can be.

Thank you for your love and support in so many areas of life!

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New Pictures from Camp

We had a great time at camp! Please check out pictures here

Camp recap coming soon!

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Camp

We’re leaving for camp in less then twenty hours. Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers!

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New Softball Pictures

We uploaded pictures from this past weeks softball tournament. Big congrats to team “Underrated” for the back-to-back victory. check out the pics here

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